Brotherhood Circle

Focus: Enter a confidential peer group and set the standard.

• Attend your first circle

  Show up, listen, and introduce yourself honestly.

• Agree to confidentiality

  What's shared in the circle stays in the circle.

• State your standard

  Declare the one thing you're committing to change.

Focus: Make weekly attendance and real talk the norm.

• Attend weekly

  Treat the circle like a non-negotiable appointment.

• Share one win & one struggle

  Each week, bring both — no performing.

• Offer support to one man

  Reach out to a brother between sessions.

Focus: Build a one-on-one accountability bond within the circle.

• Choose an accountability partner

  Pair with one man for daily/weekly check-ins.

• Set a shared commitment

  Each of you names a specific goal and deadline.

• Check in 2x/week

  Text or call — did you do what you said?

Focus: Move from participant to a man who holds the space for others.

• Lead a circle discussion

  Volunteer to bring the topic or opening reflection.

• Check on a silent brother

  If someone goes quiet, reach out privately.

• Live the standard openly

  Let your actions outside the circle match your words in it.